Nicola Dela-Croix

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Nicola Dela-Croix is a Funeral Celebrant living and working in Cambridgeshire, UK.

Nicola Dela-Croix is a Funeral Celebrant living and working in Cambridgeshire, UK.

Welcome to my blog!

Here you’ll find a broad and colourful mix of information and inspiration linking in with my passion for meaningful farewells, celebrating unique lives, mortality awareness and positive legacies. Enjoy!

Nicola x


Posts in Palliative Care
Filming final moments

If you were watching BBC Breakfast News yesterday morning, you may have seen film director Steven Eastwood being interviewed about his new film 'Island'. It's 'a life-affirming phenomena of dying' as he follows the last 12 months of four terminally ill patients at the Earl Mountbatten Hospice in Newport on the Isle of Wight, bravely including the moment of death.

I wanted to find out more about the film, and about Steven, and came across a feature he wrote for The Independent last week. In response to his experiences of filming and meeting the patients, he says...

"We fear proximity to death will change us, depress us, forge lasting negative associations with people we love. But it doesn’t. What was it like and how did I feel, when Alan died? I felt elated. Beautiful, unspeakable and strange. To my mind [the film] isn’t harrowing or burdensome. I felt uplifted and empowered by the extraordinary events I was fortunate enough to be invited to bear witness to. I hope that something of that feeling of empowerment has translated to the screen."

The film premieres at the BFI London Film Festival this weekend and I'm hoping it will be available to view in the months to come. In the meantime, if you want to see the full Independent article, you can read it HERE.

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A 'good' death

"A good death... and a good life before death, it is a human right." 
Odontuya Davaasuren

Look beyond the headlines today and you'll find a lovely, positive story showing there are good people doing good things in the world. Odontuya Davaasuren has finally brought palliative care to Mongolia, helping terminally ill patients achieve dignity and comfort, and their loved ones support and peace. Read her story here...